Recently, I had an exchange with an instructor who wanted to solve what she believed was the problem. As we communicated further and I provided additional information, it was clear to any objective observer the issue was different. Nonetheless, she began to propose a solution, and rejected input to the contrary on the basis of her education and instinct. In other words, she knew better.
The experience was a reminder of what can happen when even intelligent people come up short in the art of listening. Not only is there skill involved, but trust, maturity, patience, and a willingness to dispense with ego so others can be truly heard. Our inner voice becomes clearer, and what initially feels passive quickly morphs into a highly creative force.
Embrace the value of this art, and choose to be present as a gift to ourselves and the partner with whom we've entered this mutually beneficial and sacred space.